Many cats enjoy the feeling of being petted by humans, which pleases cat lovers everywhere. Petting cats is known to lower stress1 and even blood pressure2 in humans, and can also reduce stress in some cats. Of course, some cats don't like petting and will hiss, growl, hit or bite when someone tries to pet them. There are several reasons why cats can be so stubborn when petting.
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Why cats like to be pets
Most cats are relatively social animals that communicate with other cats by petting, rubbing and grooming each other. These actions send pheromones to other cats, which help them identify and communicate with each other. Cats prefer to communicate with humans on their own terms. They know we are not cats, but sometimes they communicate with us as if we were.
The love of many cats for physical touch comes from the time of kittens. Cat mothers lick and groom their kittens to care for them and keep them clean. The love hormone oxytocin increases during these actions in the mother and kittens, which makes the experience pleasant and soothing. Petting people mimics the feeling of being cared for and can provide the same enjoyable experience.
Moaning (cuddling and rubbing on you) is a way cats show you love. Stroking is one way to give that love back. Cats also like to pet because it feels really good. However, some cats prefer to be petted very little or not at all.
Why cats don't like to pet
Some cats resist any kind of handling, including petting. This can simply be a personal preference for some cats. In other cases, this may mean that the cat was orphaned at a young age or was not socialized with other cats or humans. Wild cats completely avoid human interactions because they grew up in cat colonies that involve little to no interaction with humans. They learn to fear and avoid people. Some wildcats can be domesticated to live with humans, but they may never accept petting.
Some cats seem to be fickle. One second they pretend to stroke, and the next they hiss, growl, hit or snap. One possible reason is that the cat may not like the particular area where it is petted. Often this means that the cat has reached a threshold for petting. Experts call this sensory overload or aggression triggered by stroking.
Tip
If you want to pet a cat, let the cat come to you first. This is especially important if the cat is not closely associated with you. A cat may feel threatened when you approach or pursue it; This makes the likelihood that the cat will trust you even less.
How to pet a cat
There are right and wrong ways to pet a cat, but it ultimately depends on the needs and desires of each cat. Many cats tolerate or enjoy petting from trusted people, but resist petting strangers. This is because a cat requires a certain level of confidence to feel safe in a vulnerable position.
Allow the cat to sniff and observe you before you try to pet it. To sit down is a great way to show that you are not a threat. Keep your hands relaxed at the height of the cat, but do not reach too close to the cat. The cat may rub or stroke your hand, a sign that it may tolerate gentle petting.
Where to pet cats
All cats are different, but there are a few general guidelines when it comes to petting places. Cats seem to feel most comfortable with gentle pets on the sides of the face. They may even push against you in response if they enjoy the attention. You can slowly move your head along the sides of the neck and shoulders. Many cats will move to guide you to where they want to be petted. If the cat knows you and trusts you, she can enjoy being stroked on the back and tail.
Cats are usually less tolerant of strangers who pet their backs,3 so avoid this if you're not closely associated with the cat. When petting cats, pay attention to communication signals and body language. Stop petting the cat if it gets tense or bends its back away from you. If in doubt, stop what you are doing and let the cat take the next step.
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